Money Diaries: Single Mom Edition

by | Jul 30, 2024

Money Diaries Series Overview

Money Diaries is a new series wherein real financial scenarios are explored, showcasing the journeys of clients seeking financial guidance, beginning with a single mom. This episode features a case study of diverse households, beginning with a single mother navigating the complexities of income fluctuations and essential expenses while aiming to secure a stable financial future for herself and her children. She describes her situation as overwhelming and chaotic, a sentiment echoed by many in similar circumstances. 

This series takes a personalized approach, stripping away specific identities to maintain confidentiality while allowing viewers to see reflections of their own experiences. The focus remains on helping individuals break free from the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck and establishing a more consistent spending rhythm. The goal is to empower viewers to take control of their financial lives, emphasizing the importance of emotional well-being in financial management.

Money Diaries: Single Mom Edition

This client, a single mother of two, is experiencing significant fluctuations in her income due to her role in sales. As her earnings vary from month to month, she feels uncertain about her financial situation, often describing herself as overwhelmed. Despite having enough to cover her bills, she struggles with a sense of instability, leading to a paycheck-to-paycheck existence. Commonly, when funds are available, she spends without a clear sense of limitation, which perpetuates her financial challenges.

To provide clarity, I asked her to fill out a simplified income worksheet to track her earnings and expenses. The aim here is to create a clear picture of her financial landscape, moving away from the chaotic management of her finances to a more organized approach. Understanding her income trends over the past three months will help establish a baseline—specifically, identifying the minimum income she can consistently expect.

The Money Tracker Tool

My KISS Money Worksheet which stands for “Keep It Simple” is one of the tools I’m using. This simple framework allows individuals to document their financial activities – income, expenses, savings, which can facilitate discussions about their emotional ties to money. 

These exercises encourage clients to explore their spending habits and decision-making processes, aiding in identifying patterns that require attention. The worksheet serves as a foundation before entering the details into a larger tracking system, the 12-months money tracker  ensuring clarity on where money is being earned and spent.

The 12-Month Money Tracker is designed to provide a comprehensive view of financial standing over an entire year. Unlike traditional budgeting methods, this tool emphasizes cash flow, allowing users to visualize how money carries over from one month to the next. Implementing this tool helps individuals break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck by creating a dynamic approach to financial planning.

To effectively use the tracker, it’s recommended to analyze income over the past 90 days to find an average. This average becomes the baseline for future projections. By understanding monthly bills and varying expenses, users can anticipate their cash flow needs and make informed decisions. 

Reviewing the last 90 days of income can provide clarity for those with fluctuating earnings. This analysis can highlight trends, identifying the lowest income received during this period. Using this minimum figure can serve as a reliable baseline for future projections in the income tracker. Keeping track of income, especially for those without a fixed salary, enables better planning and helps break the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck.

Calculating average income involves gathering data on earnings from recent months and determining a consistent figure to rely on. This average forms the foundation of financial planning and helps manage expenses effectively. It’s crucial to account for all income streams, including any additional funds from sources like 529 plans, which can significantly impact overall cash flow. 

Cash Flow Management versus Budgeting

Cash flow management focuses on the movement of money in and out over time. It highlights the importance of understanding how income varies, especially for those with fluctuating earnings, like a salesperson. The aim is to create a system that allows for better planning despite changes in income. By examining past income over a period, individuals can identify a minimum average to project future cash flow, helping them break free from a paycheck-to-paycheck cycle. 

A robust cash flow strategy can complement existing budgeting tools. Tools like Monarch provide monthly budgeting but often lack the capacity to illustrate how funds rollover from one month to the next. By integrating cash flow tracking into financial routines, individuals can improve their spending habits. This method emphasizes the pattern of resource movement, enabling better preparation for future months. Incorporating all income sources, including any contributions from savings plans, ensures a complete picture for effective cash flow management.

Expense Review and Allocation

In managing finances, it is essential to differentiate between fixed and variable expenses. Fixed expenses include regular, unchanging costs such as mortgage payments, insurance, and tuition fees. 

Variable expenses fluctuate monthly and may include groceries, utilities, and entertainment. It is crucial for individuals to keep track of these variable costs, as they can significantly impact overall financial health. This tracking helps establish a clearer picture of monthly cash flow, enabling better management of funds throughout the year.

Conclusion: Financial Planning for the Future

In the journey of financial management, one essential aspect is understanding cash flow. Establishing a reliable tracking system and using my tool – KISS Money Worksheet, which simplifies the process of tracking income, expenses, and savings can break this cycle, allowing us to gain control of our finances. This worksheet helps provide clarity in understanding where money comes from and how it is spent. 

Steps to Enhance Financial Management:

  1. Conduct a 90-Day Audit: Review past income and identify average earnings. Pinpoint the minimum consistent income for better financial forecasting.
  2. Create a Cash Flow System: Transition from a static budget to a dynamic cash flow model to allow for adaptability to income variations.
  3. Emotional Connection to Money: Address the psychological aspects of financial decision-making to foster healthier spending habits.

Implementing these strategies will help establish a solid foundation for achieving long-term financial goals, breaking the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle, and ultimately improving financial well-being.

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